Meet Naomi Slater, Sex, Relationship & Intimacy Coach

I help women and couples communicate honestly, rebuild trust, and feel close, safe and desired again.

MA in Conflict Management & Resolution · BA in Psychology · Training in Consent, Tantra Therapy & Yoga Therapy

Why I Do This Work

I know what it is like to love someone deeply and still feel unseen, unheard, and disconnected. After years together, Navot and I found ourselves fighting more, enjoying each other less, and struggling with intimacy. I had lost my desire, while he felt repeatedly rejected. We both knew something had to change.

My path into intimacy coaching grew from that experience and from years of study in psychology, conflict resolution, yoga, consent, Tantra therapy, and body-based practice. The same communication and embodiment tools that helped transform our relationship now inform the gentle, practical work I offer women and couples.

Our relationship changed when we began learning new ways to communicate, work with the body, and approach intimacy without pressure. Through Tantra, consent practices, and honest conversations, we learned to slow down, listen differently, and rebuild trust.

The process was not instant or effortless. It asked both of us to take responsibility for unresolved patterns and to create a relationship rooted in respect, authenticity, pleasure, and choice. That lived experience is why I never ask clients to force desire or rush their healing.

Today I support women and couples online, at their own pace. My approach brings together practical communication tools, embodiment, body awareness, and consent-led exploration so that intimacy can become safer, more honest, and more alive.

Education

MA in Conflict Management and Resolution, 2006
BA in Psychology, 2000

Professional Training

Tao Tantric Arts — six-month Teacher Training, 2024
Like a Pro, Professional Training — The School of Consent with Dr. Betty Martin, 2021
Advanced Course in Tantra Therapy — Avishag Haya Caspi, 2018
Bio-Energy Therapy Healing — The Abrahamson Institute, 2018
Yoga Therapy Practitioner Certification, 200hr — Dr. Gil Solberg, 2014
Pre-Natal Yoga Teacher Training — Sivananda, 2006
Yoga Teacher Training, 200hr — Sivananda, 2005
Reiki Level II, 2005

A Relationship Transformed

Navot and I have shared a spiritual path for many years. When our relationship became strained after marriage and children, we chose to stop avoiding the distance between us and begin learning together.

Our dedication and thirst for spiritual development are essentially what brought our souls together. Our first words to each other were “I love you” when we met in an Osho group meditation. Those first words left an imprint on our destiny. We have now been married for over a decade and have three beautiful children.

Although we have always had a very good relationship, at a certain point, we became bored with our intimacy, we were fighting too much, and realized that something needed to change.

Tantric and consent-based practices changed the way we communicate, make love, and respond to conflict. They helped us create more honesty, trust, respect, play, and passion—and they continue to shape our relationship today.

We both studied Advanced Tantra Therapy with Avishag Haya Caspi, a leading figure in the field, and have participated in numerous Tantra seminars in Thailand and Israel.

Are you ready to reclaim your desire?

Do you want to learn to channel your life-force energy so that you can show up more powerfully in your life?

Are you ready to increase your pleasure potential?

Do you want to work on limiting beliefs and blocked energy that interfere with your pleasure?

Do you want to reawaken the desire and passion in your relationship?